


For instructors, this means that how we respond in emotional moments matters. Tone, timing, and actions can either help a student settle and re-engage, or contribute to distress that continues for weeks and months to come. Developing this awareness isn’t about controlling emotions or avoiding discomfort that comes with learning, it’s about responding intentionally so students can stay safe, have fun and continue to learn.


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What You Will Learn Inside Emotions in The Arena:
The course is organized into a clear, intentional progression that mirrors how emotional regulation develops and how instructors encounter emotional challenges in real lessons.
You’ll learn how to recognize when emotions are supporting progress and when they are interfering with attention, motivation, and skill development. You’ll understand why fear, anxiety, and frustration can shut learning down and how curiosity, confidence, and engagement open it back up. You’ll be better equipped to respond early, before emotions derail the lesson or leave students feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or discouraged.
You’ll learn how emotional regulation is shaped by the nervous system and by relationships: why some students struggle to stay calm, focused, and receptive to learning. By understanding both the neurological and social foundations of emotional regulation, you’ll gain insight into what’s happening beneath a student’s reaction. This allows you to respond in ways that help students settle, re-engage, and build resilience rather than escalating stress or confusion in the arena.
Students cannot learn effectively when they feel judged, threatened, or emotionally unsafe.
Learning breaks down when students move beyond their ability to stay emotionally regulated. You’ll learn how to help students remain calm, present, and engaged when challenges arise.
By understanding the Window of Tolerance, you’ll learn how to recognize when a student is approaching overwhelm and how to support them in staying within a range where learning can continue.
Emotions in the Arena is designed to support understanding and real-world application. In addition to the core course content, your enrollment includes the following resources to help you integrate these skills into your teaching with confidence.
The Emotions in the Arena workbook is designed to support reflection, application, and integration throughout the course. It serves as a structured companion to each section, helping you organize key ideas, connect concepts to real teaching situations, and track your own growth as an instructor.
Rather than functioning as a summary of content, the workbook is meant to be used alongside the course, supporting thoughtful engagement with the material and encouraging you to translate insight into action.
Participants will be invited to join Dr. Haefner for six live sessions held throughout the course. These sessions provide space for deeper exploration of course material, clarification of questions, and thoughtful discussion of how concepts apply across different teaching contexts.
The live format allows instructors to engage with the material beyond the videos, reflect on their experiences, and gain perspective from both Dr. Haefner and fellow instructors navigating similar challenges.
Throughout the course, you’ll receive access to a curated collection of supplemental resources related to each section. These may include research articles, books, lectures, videos, and additional educational materials for those who want to explore topics more deeply.
This library is designed to support continued learning without overwhelming you, offering credible, relevant resources that align with the frameworks taught in the course.
Understanding the science behind anxiety and fear has been transformative. It helps me recognize these emotions as potential barriers to my riders' performance.
With the practical tools and tips provided by Paul and Justin, I can now tailor my teaching approach to support the riders more holistically, thus fostering their success."

Upon completing all course sections, reflections, and explorations, participants will receive a Certificate of Completion recognizing their commitment to professional development and responsible instruction.
This certificate reflects engagement with science-informed approaches to emotional regulation, learning, and instructor-student dynamics. Many instructors may apply this course toward Continuing Education hours for their respective accrediting organizations, depending on individual requirements.
More importantly, the certificate represents more than attendance, it reflects a willingness to examine one’s teaching, apply new skills, and uphold a higher standard of care for students in emotionally complex learning environments.
Bonus ONE
An in-depth printable workbook designed to serve as your quick reference guide for each section of the course. This workbook consolidates key concepts, strategies, take-aways, and exercises, helping you apply what you have learned in real time with your students.
Bonus TWO
Get direct access to Dr. Paul Haefner for six group coaching and Q&A sessions, and personalized support. These interactive sessions give you the opportunity to ask your own questions, gain deeper insights, and receive expert guidance on applying course concepts to your unique teaching challenges. Whether you need clarity on emotional regulation strategies or help with real-life student scenarios, these live sessions ensure you get individualized support to maximize your success.
Bonus THREE
Take your understanding even further with Dr. Haefner's curated collection of books, videos, research articles, courses, websites, and lectures that provide a deeper dive into each lesson topic. This comprehensive resource guide allows you to expand your knowledge, explore advanced concepts, and continue growing as an instructor long after the course ends. Whether you're looking for scientific research, expert insights, or practical applications, these additional materials will support your ongoing education and desire to empower your students for success.
6 In-Depth Modules
containing ~20-minute video lessons
Guided Explorations and Reflections
to help you apply what you learn in each Section
Real-World Case Studies & Examples
to help you understand how to apply what you're learning in the arena
Exclusive Bonus Material: Printable Course Workbook
to consolidate key concepts, strategies, and exercises
Exclusive Bonus Material: LIVE Weekly Training Sessions with Dr. Paul Haefner
6 weeks of live group coaching, Q&A sessions, and personalized support
Exclusive Bonus Material: Dr. Paul Haefner's Curated Collection of Additional Learning Resources
Books, videos, research articles, courses, websites, and lectures that provide a deeper dive into each lesson topic
Emotions in the Arena is designed for instructors who take their role seriously, those who want to support their students not just technically, but emotionally, thoughtfully, and responsibly.
This live, 5-week course begins February 19, 2026 and is offered with limited enrollment to support meaningful learning and interaction.
If you’re ready to build skills that will serve you in every lesson, every interaction, and throughout your teaching career, we invite you to join us.
6 In-Depth Modules
containing ~20-minute video lessons
Guided Explorations and Reflections
to help you apply what you learn in each Section
Real-World Case Studies & Examples
to help you understand how to apply what you're learning in the arena
Exclusive Bonus Material: Printable Course Workbook
to consolidate key concepts, strategies, and exercises
Exclusive Bonus Material: LIVE Weekly Training Sessions with Dr. Paul Haefner
6 weeks of live group coaching, Q&A sessions, and personalized support
Exclusive Bonus Material: Dr. Paul Haefner's Curated Collection of Additional Learning Resources
Books, videos, research articles, courses, websites, and lectures that provide a deeper dive into each lesson topic

If within the within the first 7 days of the course, you find that this course doesn't meet your expectations or needs, please don't hesitate to contact us. We will promptly refund your money, no questions asked. Your satisfaction is paramount to us, and we are here to support you every step of the way.
This course is designed for riding instructors, trainers, coaches, and clinicians who want to help their students manage emotions and improve their performance in the saddle.
The course is taught in a live format over 5 weeks. Each section contains multiple easy to follow lessons and actionable exercises along with additional resources for you to go deeper into your studies. Students will have access to the course material for 7 weeks total to complete the sections.
Weekly Live Sessions will be held on Thursday evenings at 7pm EST. If you are unable to attend the Live Sessions, you may submit your questions ahead of time and review the replays of the Live Sessions inside the course following the session.
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